Sitong uses judgment to make decisions. She is ruled by her head, not her heart. She is a cool, collected person who is usually unexpressive emotionally. Some may see her as unemotional. She does have emotions but has no need to express them. She is withdrawn into herself and enjoys being alone.

The circumstances when Sitong does express emotions include: extreme anger, extreme passion, and tremendous stress. If someone gets her mad enough to tell her off, she will not be sorry about it later. She puts a mark in her mind when someone angers her. She keeps track of these marks and when she hits that last mark she will let them know they have gone too far. (Actually this is not very true. Most of the time I forget the conflicts I have with people very quickly. I'm like my mum) She is ruled somewhat by self-interest. All her conclusions are made without outside emotional influence. She is very level-headed and will remain calm in an emergency situation. In a situation where other people might get hysterical, she has poise. (Hrm interesting, I didn't know I had such great abilities).

Sitong will work more efficiently if given space and time to be alone. She would rather not be surrounded by people constantly. In a relationship, she will show her love by the things she does rather than by the things she says. Saying "I love you" is not a needed routine because she feels her mate should already know. The only exception to this is if she has logically concluded that it is best for her mate to hear her express her love verbally.

Sitong is not subject to emotional appeals. If someone is selling a product to her, they will need to present only the facts. They should present them from a standpoint of her sound judgment. She will not be taken in by an emotional story about someone else. She will meet emergencies without getting hysterical and she will always ask "Is this best for me?"

People that write their letters in an average height and average size are moderate in their ability to interact socially. According to the data input, Sitong doesn't write too large or too small, indicating a balanced ability to be social and interact with others.

Sitong is talkative. She enjoys talking and socializing. She may talk when there is absolutely nothing important to say. She enjoys speaking. (This only depends on the occasion. Sometimes I speak up only when I need to.)

In reference to Sitong's mental abilities, she has a very investigating and creating mind. She investigates projects rapidly because she is curious about many things. She gets involved in many projects that seem good at the beginning, but she soon must slow down and look at all the angles. She probably gets too many things going at once. (Damn right) When Sitong slows down, then she becomes more creative than before. Since it takes time to be creative, she must slow down to do it. She then decides what projects she has time to finish. Thus she finishes at a slower pace than when she started the project.

She has the best of two kinds of minds. One is the quick investigating mind. The other is the creative mind. Her mind thinks quick and rapidly in the investigative mode. She can learn quicker, investigate more, and think faster. Sitong can then switch into her low gear. When she is in the slower mode, she can be creative, remember longer and stack facts in a logical manner. She is more logical this way and can climb mental mountains with a much better grip.

Sitong's true self-image is unreasonably low. Someone once told Sitong that she wasn't a great and beautiful person, and she believed them. (I'm not as pathetic as it's described here you know...I won't believe idiots that say I'm ugly. Blerh.) Sitong also has a fear that she might fail if she takes large risks. Therefore she resists setting her goals too high, risking failure. She doesn't have the internal confidence that frees her to take risks and chance failure. Sitong is capable of accomplishing much more than she is presently achieving. All this relates to her self-esteem. Sitong's self-concept is artificially low. Sitong will stay in a bad situation much too long... why? Because she is afraid that if she makes a change, it might get worse. It is hard for Sitong to plan too far into the future. She kind of takes things on a day to day basis. She may tell you her dreams but she is living in today, with a fear of making a change. No matter how loud she speaks, look at her actions. This is perhaps the biggest single barrier to happiness people not believing in and loving themselves. Sitong is an example of someone living with a low self-image, because their innate self-confidence was broken. (This is actually quite true...especially about taking things on a day to day basis thing. When you ask me what goals I have, I'll say I dunno, cos i never really wanted to think about it. Thinking about these things make my head hurt. So i just focus on getting things done well daily.)

Sitong is sarcastic. This is a defense mechanism designed to protect her ego when she feels hurt. She pokes people harder than she gets poked. These sarcastic remarks can be very funny. They can also be harsh, bitter, and caustic at the same time.

Sitong is very self-sufficient. She is trying not to need anyone. She is capable of making it on her own. She probably wants and enjoys people, but she doesn't "need" them. She can be a loner.

Actually I've learn some things about myself that I normally don't think about, especially about the low self-esteem part. I've never been really confident in myself, although i can't really explain it but I'm def not as pathetic as it was described above. I still have that ounce to confidence to know not to listen to stupid people who flame me for their own personal gains. And I do agree that sometimes I don't need people to be constantly around me. i enjoy my own free time sometimes at home when no one is around, then i can do whatever stupid things i like. But i do appreciate my friends, in fact sometimes i value them more than my family, considering that my family only consists my parents and me. Not to mention that my parents are yelling at each other almost everyday again. Oh well, it happens at least 3 times per year.

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