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Une fille comme moi
Je t'aime plus que hier, moins que demain ♥
Welcome to the blog of a 17yearoldgirl, where she posts her mindless musings and ramifications.
This is extremely private;
cos this is where she dreams, sleeps and cries.
She lives.
"We can catch buses and count our change and cross the roads and talk real sentences.
but our innocence goes awfully deep,
and our discreditable secret is that we don’t know anything at all,
and our horrid inner secret is that
we don’t care that we don’t."
crammin'
Wednesday, June 21, 2006, 9:35 PM
tmr i'm going genting!! yay!!! i'm packing all my stuff now...so happie. i wanna ride every single roller coaster 3 times!!!!! ^.^ muahahha i lurrvee roller coasters! n i love ferris wheels as well.

sitong's checklist:
-mp4!!!
-mp4 charger =.=
-clothes~2 pair of pants, 1 jacket, 3 tops, undies XD
-R&J bk (sighh holidae oso cant slack)
-maths ws on quad grahs 2 revise (sighhh)
-yummy tidbits
-story book
-toothbrush, mug n all dat
-small bottles of shampoo n body lotion (i hate e genting hotel ones)
-stuffie 2 hug

yup i guess dat's all. e rest leave 2 my parents to pack. sighh holidae actually plan 2 finis chinese SIA de...still left one more reflection 2 do plus one conclusion. so sian. dun wanna do lorx. i hope genting's gonna b fun! e last time i went there i tink it was P5 or P6. i went during CNY hols wif my fren's family n my parents. ya...den i got sick lor. i caught a flu n cold den i lost my voice n i nearly got fever. luckily dun have cos dat time got SARS thingy den if have den i'll have problems returning back 2 s'pore. i'll b coming back on sat nite. i'll blog on sundae!! XD cant wait...i love going overseas even if it's jus genting. e feeling is jus different. ch a gr8 change compared 2 my boring life. =)

hollow empty feeling....
Tuesday, June 13, 2006, 7:04 PM
okayy now i'm feeling uber depressed. life is jus such a big fake thing. y should i even care? heck care heck care. i mus remind myself dat. or else i'll truly become clinically depressed. i'm gonna skip dinner 2dae. n i skipped lunch 2dae oso. who e hell cares???? those kinda things r so so trivial to wad i'm feeling now. i'm not sure whether i wanna blog about this. i mean i dun feel like revealing the whole ugly thing about my life...having like 2-3 posts bout how my parents fight is enough. but apparently now my parents stopped fighting, sth else even badder happens. let's jus say last night sth nasty happened btw mi n my parents n now i got a scar on my face, bruises on my legs. i dun wanna talk about it anymore it gives mi e creeps. seems like a typical family violence scene times 2. there. i've said it. u noe wad happened. i dun wanna go into e details. BUT i'm okay. n it's all bcos i'm saved by my heck care attitude. i was like "hi5! who e hell cares?! not mi? this pain? i can survive it! all i noe is dat i'm not gonna end up like some pathetic child sobbing, thinking about ending her life on this one stupid thing!" dat's how i feel. welll nex time if such another incident happens again, u might as well jus break my leg or do sth serious. den i'll go 2 e hopsital n u can go 2 jail. hell i can jus go into e police station near my hse (only a damn 5 mins walk) n file a case on child abuse!! okayy so it was all my fault---i was in the wrong. but even if i'm wrong, i fucking dun deserve this hellish treatment i get. jus bcos u guys r parents, we gotta respect u n if we dont, u can treat us however u like? where e hell r e human rights?! gawd dat time i went canada a child below 13(i tink) cant stay home alone n if dey do n ppl find out, their parents r gonna get in trouble wif e law! n oso if a child is found to have suffer from parent's beatings, their parents are so so so gonna b dead meat!

hell, at this rate i'm going, i dun nid my parents at all! all i nid is a hse 4 mi 2 live in, financial support on sch fees n daily fees n e basic needs of a child i can do pretty well on my own! i can make my own desicions get control of my own life. now wouldnt dat be soooooooo gr8??? all i do is get in trouble or cause unhappiness wif my parents aniwae...i can b so so much happi in a boarding sch. now i'm alone at home. i dunno whr e hell is my mum n my dad dun wanna come home. he went out 2 some place. n my mum basically jus din bother 2 come back w/o telling anione why. ohh ok, i can hear her jus coming back now. wadeva. like i care. i dun care bout anything. i jus do e stuff dat i'm supposed 2 do...play piano, revise hw, do regular stuff regualr kids do n try to act normal as if my life is jus as perfect as others. wheeee my dad i tink is in a stinking mood again...he's scolding e word "damn" again n again. n he tells my mum 2 go get out. wad a fantastic family i haf! jus exactly wad i nid...all e fun i can get 4 my june hols. coming back now, i dun tink a single dae of my june hols was ever good. how nice. well at least nex time i'll have a excuse 4 not getting good grades! i'll go: cos u guys keep arguing n i become depressed so i get liddat! isn't it the *cough* greatest??????

den last sat, i went shopping wif my parents. din buy much. jus bought shoes. we neva go out likie a normal family shopping 4 so long i 4got how hellish it was. shopping is when my parents spend like 1 hr trying to decide wad 2 buy while i wait restlessly trying to find other things dat interest mi. nex time i wun ever go shopping wif them unless i'm desperate! it's so good going wif frenz, we go 2 e same store dat we like, try on clothes, have fun, buy wadeva we like. no nagging no frustration, jus pure fun!! my family is a nutcase. :D

shopping!!!!!!!!
Thursday, June 08, 2006, 10:24 PM
wheeeee todae mi n xueyan went shopping in plaza singapura!! it was so freaking fun! we sat mrt to dhoby ghaut n visited e new mrt shopping center n there was so few ppl there like 2-3 altogether in e whole place which is like so pathetic! n den i bought a new earring there. it has a super cute voodoo doll figure attached =) den we went plaza singapura at about 2.30pm den we went samuel n kelvin's to shop!!! whooooooo i FINALLY bought a SK strappy top n my long awaited beloved CARGO PANTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! yay!! cross dat off my wishlist! but it was so damn ex. it took away half of my savings!! it was 67 bucks can! =( den xueyan was complaining of like fainting of hunger by then cos it was 3++pm le n we still din eat lunch. den we went food court 2 eat, i had jus minced meat noodles. n e noodles was so crap. $3.50 n only a few sad veggie leaves, mushrooms n one fishball plus some minced meat. bleh. xueyan had korean spicy udon noddle. n she was panting after she finished it. den ah yan insisted on mi n her sharing dessert so we both paid $1 n ate dessert---i tink it was a cream croissant. yup.

after lunch we went shoping 4 makeup for my upcoming 2 concerts in july. den red earth was having discount---buy any lip product n get another one free! so mi n xy share e cost. she bought one lipstick n i bought one gloss...end up i only paid $9.50 which is sooooo cheap 4 red earth lip gloss!! den we went sasa 2 shop 4 more makeup...i bought one eyeshadow palette in e end but i dun tink e colours r good cos dey dun stay on properly...all e colours r soooo faint. but oso no wonder cos e palette comes wif a blush, 9 colours of eyeshadows one pearl purple lipstick n it's only like $12.90!! *narrows eyes* hell go n die larh my dumb parents screaming in e background. ok wadeva. denn we went pmk n pmk was having a sale of 30% storewide so i bought another pmk blouse 4 only $16! normal price is $22.90 de lor...wadeva. i'm gonna buy another one nex time i go jp's pmk. heh jus realised dat i dun have enuf tees to wear. nvm... i go coro den go make custom maked tees. one tee only cost like $10+ anyway if i jus rite a few words in one same colour. i wanna design my own tees. i hate all those t-shirts dat outside sell de. okie so i tink 2dae i spend about $100 bucks in total larh...i tink $100 plus lor cos e transport fees n e lunch money. yarh. den go home kana scolded by parents oso cos they totally hate e cargo pants(i knew dat they'll hate it) say not nice n still so ex blah blah. yarh but really e cargo pants is like $50 bucks! no choice. who ask mi dat i like e pants so so much?? hee...i wanna buy ripcurl n roxy stuff oso!! 2dae mi n xy go see got 20%-30% discount but alredy broke le so din buy. oh yarh plus i nid ripples flip-flops. nvm! this sat go orchard wif mum buy more makeup n more stuff =D i lurveee shopping!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

where's my home?
Monday, June 05, 2006, 7:49 PM
okie last sat my mum woke up like a total bitch. first, she started bitching n yelling about she dun wanna buy the flat in toh guan n she said dat e agent cheated her money n my dad forced her 2 buy, din give her enuf time 2 reconsider blah blah. she sae e flat maintanence not good enuf n had been up 4 sale so long oso nobody buy den blame my dad 4 still giving such a high price. she sae even if she move in she oso wun b happi. she's jus so damn money minded. all she cares about is e price seriously. it's not about whether she likes it or not. lemme tell u if we paid like 370k 4 dat stupid flat den i tink she will love it. but my dad offered a price of 400k so yarh...she dun wanna spend dat much money so of course she dun wanna buy. it's not as if my dad hasnt given her enuf time 2 consider b4 signing e contract so now if we back out at e last min, we'll prob lose baout 4k. heh n it's all her fucking fault n she still pushes all e blame on my dad. serves her rite. she's owaes she hesistant on buying e flats aniwae n she was like complaining dat time she missed a really good chance 2 buy a flat dat she "really liked"(notice e use of quotation marks) n it's all bcos of my dad again. she blame him 4 NOT PERSUADING HER ENUF 2 buy dat...she sae if he sae more of e flat's benefits she'll probably b convinced 2 buy. which is so totally lame. dat's wad i so so so hate about her. she put e blame on others not herself n when ppl point it out, she's pissed.



den last sat, she woke up yelling about e flat 1st thing in e morning, woke mi up 7am like a crow squawking. den after yelling stragith 4 like more than 1 hr she went BACK 2 SLP. dat's like 10am. den she ask us 2 shuddup cos she cant slp properly. wad's her problem?! alex sae is depression. i hope not. if she haf depression i'll probably gonna haf hallucination. denn later at nite, my dad went to giant imm to buy e usual groceries veggies fruits bread n stuff...den my mum phone him 2 bring back dinner. my dad i dunno wad he was tinkin at dat moment, purposely refused her so of course my mum went mad again, saying he purposely make her angry. den my mum started screaming at mi 2 go out wif her 2 haf dinner at restaurant since my dad can go out. she was like "why ur dad can go out liddat n we cant? i bring u 2 eat restaurant! den we go see movies! even more better den him!!" den i was like there's nth good showing in e cinemas at e moment jus go out 4 dinner can le. den she was like: dinner only?! (she practically shrieked) den after dinner we go bac home so early 4 wad? huh?! okie den we went jp 4 dinner(at 1st she wanna go orchard den decided dat she was too tired 2 walk) den during our whole time out, she was really nice to mi. n i was like so surprised! she talk 2 mi nicely n everything, went wif mi 2 eat sushi cos i wanna eat dat, den bought mi myuk pencil box n wallet! i was wondering did she eat sth dat addled her brain. one moment she was shoting n e nex she was so...nice. i really begin 2 suspect she haf depression. either dat or heavy mood swings.



den todae she n my dad finally had a totally civilised normal meal like normal family. pheww...after all those daes of indigestion watching them scream across e table. bleh. i tink mayb jus mayb things r gonna clear up. i needa inform Lex rite awy! sighh 2dae choir so damn "ughh" i tink cor-(our student conductor) was being pms-y...she was like picking on every section n asking us 2 repeat e same parts again n again n she even kicked out S1 n S2! which she neva done b4. i dunno wad's wrong wif her. den she was being totally bitchy when talking wif mr matthew lim oso...in a kinda cynical tone. cos mr lim came 2 c how we were doing wif e family concert songs n all. >_<" ohh welllll tmr choir again jus hope cor's pms thingy goes away! n hope my sore throat go away too!


*smile a bright fake smile 4 mi will ya?


messed up everything
Thursday, June 01, 2006, 10:57 PM
heh wad was dat annoymous post about? things r sprawling way out of my control n i cant help it. i try n i try 2 tell my parents to accomodate each other better, to forgive n forget, to understand each other's mistakes......wad's e damn use of it all? it was so naive n stupid of mi 2 tink dat dey can patch up their relationship! it was so innocent n optimistic of mi 2 tink dat everything will work out! welll it's near 11pm n both my parents r out. dat's rite out. w/o telling mi where they r. i had went out earlier cos i cant stand their yelling n den i had talked 35mins to alex, felt better n went back. n discovered dat e flat was empty. heh heh. now i no longer give a damn to how this is gonna work out, at this rate, yelling everydae, i'd rather dat they divorce...i'll live wif my mum n i wont even fucking mind. everydae jus as we all seat down 4 dinner my mum will kick up a ruckus. it is as if she's addictive 2 it n she wun feel comfortable unless she haf something 2 holler about. den my dad will get angry cos he absolutely HATES ppl yelling when he's tryin 2 eat---he wants e whole family 2 seat down n haf a nice quiet peaceful civilised meal. pity dat my mum isnt too civil though. n pity dat i'm not at all interested in dat "perfect family dinner" thingy.


how can i keep these horrible things 2 myself? i hafta vent it out somehow...i cant stand their everydae shouting as if i'm not pissed enuf alredy. n my foolish mum, she bought a flat in toh guan dat she dun like. she push e blame on my dad, saying dat he forced her 2 make decisions rashly. come to tink of it, my mum fulfil e every requirement in my criteria 2 hate someone. 1) she simply lurveees to push e blame on others. 2) she is insensitive to other's feelings 3) she talks w/o her brains turned on 4) she loves 2 yell in dat uncivilised asshole way of hers. all of dat come to my image of a b-i-t-c-h. yup i noe it's disrespectful 2 call her dat n all but it is always her who come home n make both mi n my dad so irate. n it's always her 2 b e 1st one 2 start a yelling game. it's OWAES her dat cause all dat unpleasant stuff. wad's her problem?!


oh wellll 2 divert my attention from those petty issues, stop talkin about this. it jus drives mi up e wall more. i cut my hair. went 2 cut hair ytd. dat woman who cut my hair made my fringe so short n i haf a totally different look now. it seems as if my hair is a little spiky instead of its original smoothness. but nvm...i like changes. n i'm pleasantly surprised dat my parents still allow mi 2 b up here bloggin...i tink they're gonna get mi 2 come offline soon. i feel like living in a boarding sch cos i'll b free from e crutches of my parents. no more naggin, yelling,screaming=no more frustration 4 mi! i'll become worry-free! n i can take care of myself n my studies...so i guess it'll b no prob. hmm mayb can do boarding sch wif frens. =) life is jus so boring. u dun haf a goddamn goal at all. i mean wad's ther to look forward to cept for ur bdae n holidays? other den dat it's all doing e same stuff everydae. students go 2 sch everydae. adults go 2 work everydae. n old ppl seat around n bore their asses out everydae. n when u're old it's too late 2 get a real life anymore yarh so...most ppl doesnt haf a good life full or successes n ambition n hope. most ppl jus drag themself to get up every morning n do their schdule properly to get everything 2 go smoothly n normally. life is jus a long road wif some turning points 2 give u a bit of change in ur daily schdules. other than dat, it's jus a big *poof* wif occassional surprises n tradegies like falling in love, watching someone die or quarrelling wif sb. it's all alike. dat's wad i hate so much about it. i'd rather be a bird than b myself. at least a bird gets 2 fly n discover how blue e sky is which is so much more fun than sitting at home watching your parents tear each other into pieces verbally.